So you run XR3, or 4's front and rear? Or are you not running cobalts anymore? It's amazing I will go through nearly 3 sets of front pads, to a set of rears. That's why I have a brake prop valve in my "non SM" miata.
Keep in mind, unless something bizarre is going on, you SHOULD be wearing out the fronts 2-8 times faster because the front axle is doing 2-8 times more braking than the rear when you are on the racetrack. Still, I agree an adjustable prop valve would be nice

I'm probably changing front pads about 5 times before I change the rear.
Gatoratty's experience is very unusual (in general) and it makes me think there is something very incompatible about the compounds front-rear or the temps front-rear. I had a problem with Hawk Blue/Black on the 1.6 where I could only get 1.5 sessions out of the Black rears. It was evident I was over-temping the pad (Edge chipping, and chipping out the centers too).
Gatoratty, don't be surprised if the brake pad guy finds your reports difficult to believe ... nobody ever believes that Spec Miatas can beat up a "Corvette compound", etc. (Of course, they aren't thinking of how tiny the brakes are, no cooling, no bias bar or adjustable prop valve, etc.).